dear parent welcome to being parents of an adolescent.
this is the beginning of adolescent swings.
be patient.
don't judge, don't compare
just be there with him
keep communication, be understanding.
keep watch.
he is developing personality, he is as confused.
be very clear in what you are telling him.
find an adolescent consultant and consult with her/ him how to handle an adolescent.
you can take him to the adolescent consultant on some other pretext, like if child gets
flu or so, so that he is familiar with the doctor
there after adolescent consultant will not guide you n him both.
my personal experience says parents need more
counselling than the child.
if you learn now it will be easier in future.