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My gf and I are waiting to have sex until we are married but I am having a hard time controlling my self when I am with her. I masterbate when it get to the point where there is no controlling I the urges . Is there something I can do to stop or control the urges all the time.
Hi, This is quite normal at this age and particularly when your girl friend is with you. This can not be prevented and when you get highly excited, go for masturbation to satisfy your sex urge. Avoid thinking sex and talk some good topics when you are to-gather. Read good books when you are free. Pass some time in sports in the evening. Before going to bed pray the god and go for sleep. Ok and take care.
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How To Control Sex Urge?
Hi, This is quite normal at this age and particularly when your girl friend is with you. This can not be prevented and when you get highly excited, go for masturbation to satisfy your sex urge. Avoid thinking sex and talk some good topics when you are to-gather. Read good books when you are free. Pass some time in sports in the evening. Before going to bed pray the god and go for sleep. Ok and take care.