How To Cure Stress?

My husband is abusive when I do not do as he says or if he has stress, I am blamed for most of our problems, He runs to his parents cuts off everything, won t answer the phone till he feels I am broken enough, then it it terrible abusive phone calls. He says he loves me when he has his way, if not he is cruel and abusive to the point I cannot sleep I cannot eat, the fear and anbondment completely destroys my life, I am distressed for a week or months depending on how long he want to hurt me. I cannot function I am so tired and weak. He threatens divorce if I do not do what he demands and accept all the blame. He has done terrible thing to me though he says get over it. When I have gotten a little strength to stand up for myself and stood up to him he leaves and emptys the joint account and leaves me with so much fear. This has been going on for one year and six months, my health is suffering. I smoke so much as my nerves are finished, can t hardly eat cannot sleep. I am sorry my husband has left me with no money.