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How To Deal With A Dominating Partner?

my boyfriend is always on me telling me what im doing wrong and what i need to do nd how i should handle things and he wants everything his way or noway he makes me feel like shit and like its always about him no matter what i love him but i cant take it any more please help
Mon, 12 May 2014
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. He is dominating because his personality is like that. You cannot change him on that aspect at least for now. Personality factors and attitude towards loved ones change when he becomes experienced in life. You just follow the normal life pattern. Never tell him that he is dominant, but tell him that you are capable. Prove him your abilities. Prove yourself to him. Slowly slowly he shall understand.

Meanwhile, Your awareness about his such behavior shall become a problem in your relationship. Because you are already in apprehensive mood. In future you shall always see his dominance before hand even if he is not dominant. That shall be problem of the near future. Change yourself also.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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How To Deal With A Dominating Partner?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. He is dominating because his personality is like that. You cannot change him on that aspect at least for now. Personality factors and attitude towards loved ones change when he becomes experienced in life. You just follow the normal life pattern. Never tell him that he is dominant, but tell him that you are capable. Prove him your abilities. Prove yourself to him. Slowly slowly he shall understand. Meanwhile, Your awareness about his such behavior shall become a problem in your relationship. Because you are already in apprehensive mood. In future you shall always see his dominance before hand even if he is not dominant. That shall be problem of the near future. Change yourself also. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.