Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. I had seen a lot of people who are like this. You are talking about people around 30. But more common category is age of 60 and above. I am not taking children into consideration here. I always suggest people to be a child by heart and an adult by intellect. Laugh and be creative like a child and take decisions like a grown up adult. This type of attitude always keeps everybody happy. Of course, people like this, are always considered out of sync with the society. They are treated abnormal. But I suggest, they are normal. This is the problem of our perception. If you perceive that person positively, and try to be in the shoes of that person, you shall also be like him, for better. If you require more of my help in this aspect, Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition further. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.