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How To Deal With Break Ups?

i am in a relationship with this guy for the last 2 n half yrs n i love him madly. i cant think of a life without him. but he doesnt love me madly,even if i do small mistakes he instantly wants to break up but i somehow convince against it. this has hapnd so may times befor n now again he wants to break up bcuz i slapped him,it was a reflex in anger,wich i wud never do if i was not mad with rage.his ego is v hurt how shud i tell him m vv sorry n get him back??
Wed, 30 Jul 2014
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General & Family Physician 's  Response
Hello dear!
First of all, you need to decide whether you yourself are happy in the relationship? Ask yourself, if you really need to continue with this? Do you want to continue for the sake of it or you don't have anyone else in life? If the answer is no, then think about all the good things first, and the efforts you have made to let it happen. Analyse your mistakes and then get it sorted once for all after discussion between you. If he is not interested to continue or not equally involved then you need to get your consciousness out of his and focus on other things! Life is beautiful! Stay blessed :-)
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Dentist Dr. Darmi's  Response
Hello.thank you for your question at hcm.

This kind of attitude should not be tolerated. Do you think you can live whole life with him with his this nature if you marry him .Think about your kids .what will they learn from this type of meaningless ego and anger. They too will suffer. As a female you should be independent and confident on yourself and not dependent on that guy only to live your life.
Just make few things clear by saying him that either he should improve his nature or you should not go behind him.control your emotions for this time. It is a decision about life partner.. you can't pass the whole life with such quarrels and crying..in fact if he loves you truly he will never let you cry.if not then he doesn't deserve you.
He will come back to you if he can control his ego and anger. If he doesn't then don't go begging behind him.because you will be begging your bad days by doing that.

Wish you good luck .
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How To Deal With Break Ups?

Hello dear! First of all, you need to decide whether you yourself are happy in the relationship? Ask yourself, if you really need to continue with this? Do you want to continue for the sake of it or you don t have anyone else in life? If the answer is no, then think about all the good things first, and the efforts you have made to let it happen. Analyse your mistakes and then get it sorted once for all after discussion between you. If he is not interested to continue or not equally involved then you need to get your consciousness out of his and focus on other things! Life is beautiful! Stay blessed :-)