I really love this girl, and i think she likes me. We reasonlty met up for a drink togeather and walking around. When it was time to go to bed. I offerd her the bed i slept on the floor.. went out and went to the loo. got back in and she said, Come and join me in bed Jumped in and she and i was chatting for over 4hrs non stop.. when we thought c mon time to sleep.. she lent across and said dont ever leave me alone tonight. i said i wont... I was really really happy her and i were getting on really nicely. BUT. She has a boyfreind :-( I dont want to split her and him up. but at the same time i really want to be with her for the rest of my life.. What should i do???? Tell her i have very strong feelings or leave it?? I have nt been my normal self when i had to say goodbye to her yesterday morning.. part of me says tell her.. another part says leave it and live life.. I really need to know as i cant sleep propperly and its bugging me... what shell i do???? please tell me... :-)
Tue, 19 Aug 2014
General & Family Physician, Dr. Anand M I's Response
see the situation. spend more time with her. see her situation. if you get a chance then tell her. analyse the situation. see if you can live happily with her. you have to think a lot before u take any step
HI dear , it's so good to listen that you are in love.love is special emotion of our blissful life .i will suggest to work out about your feeling with that girl .if she invited you to join her into bed ..it means she trust you a lot .dnt burden your life with the guilt that you will spoil her relationship with her boyfriend .he is just boyfriend not husband .i think you should tell her about your special feeling with her .And let her decide your place in her life ..best wishes for you and love of your life .regards Dr.Harpreet Kaur
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How To Deal With Emotional Feelings For Someone?
see the situation. spend more time with her. see her situation. if you get a chance then tell her. analyse the situation. see if you can live happily with her. you have to think a lot before u take any step