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How To Develop Self Confidence ?

Hello, I'm a 17 years old guy weighing 90 kg at 1.90 height.Depression is my main problem, as I feel myself being quite ugly, especially concerning my face, and therefore, I lack self confidence, resulting in being alone, without a girlfriend. I cannot name a feature of my face that looks specifically ugly. If I take a look at any of them separately, they all look fine, but when I look them all together, it just doesn't look right or handsome. Sometimes it gets worse, as I feel so down I don't even want to look at myself in the mirror. Please, I need help desperately. Thanks in advance..
Mon, 19 Jan 2015
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. You are just the victim of your own negative thoughts. You can take the example anyone who is handsome, and look critically at him, you will always find some pitfalls. That means, nobody is perfect or perfectly handsome. Sylvester Stallone is handsome for some and not-so-handsome for some. Everything is just perception. And perception differs person to person. So don't worry about what you are, concentrate on success in your life.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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How To Develop Self Confidence ?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. You are just the victim of your own negative thoughts. You can take the example anyone who is handsome, and look critically at him, you will always find some pitfalls. That means, nobody is perfect or perfectly handsome. Sylvester Stallone is handsome for some and not-so-handsome for some. Everything is just perception. And perception differs person to person. So don t worry about what you are, concentrate on success in your life. If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.