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Dr. I had hand job habits since 16 years now I'm 25 years 4 days before I've got married and now my problem is when i do hand job i enjoy too much and ejaculation happen quickly so it's OK but when i do sex with my wife ejaculation not happening even if i doing sex for 15-20 min after i take out my panis and do hand job again then ejaculation happen.(when i do sex with my wife i feel not comfortable, like hand job) here in my wife also not happy now, but we are using condom.so can you please give me a solution for this ? what should i do???
No interesting intercourse with your partner or as you mentioned your mentality is like ejaculation could done only with masturbation. This could be problem with you.
I would suggest that spend more time with your partner for increasing sex drive and divert your mind from masturbation.
I would like to suggest you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, No interesting intercourse with your partner or as you mentioned your mentality is like ejaculation could done only with masturbation. This could be problem with you. I would suggest that spend more time with your partner for increasing sex drive and divert your mind from masturbation. I would like to suggest you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati