Hello, Thank you for writing HCM, Masturbation is part of sexual life which dont need any partner and most of people love that than intercourse. I would like to suggest you to try different sex with your partner like oral sex and other it should increase your sexual pleasure with partner. Because you should satisfy with masturbation but also have to think about your partner there. So, you have to be with her. And it should done with sex together only so if you like masturbation more than intercourse with partner i would suggest that you should even try masturbation with your partner if she agrees to do the same. It should increase your sex pleasure and you will love to have sex with partner. Hope you will find it helpful. Still any doubt i will suggest to concern sexologist they could give you detailed instruction. Have a good life ahead. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati