Hello,
Thank you for writing to HCM,
Its not that girl must be bleeding while loosing virginity. Its depends on situations.
I had gone through your query and would like to suggest you that loosing of virginity doesnt mean to bleed. It could be possible that no bleeding will be there sometimes.
All you have to do is trust your wife as you described she was feeling pain and still you tried hard to enter penis in vagina so possible to have some serious
injury.
There could be issue with pre cum also that amount of pre cum should be less than normal. here you should go for foreplay and
Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. It will help you to enter penis easily than normal intercourse also.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati