my wife and i both follow a value that we did not have sex before marriage, however we would play around and i have achieved orgasms many times before we were married, and she has gotten very close. now that we are married as of 2 weeks ago and have sexual intercourse, we have not been able to get her to climax, or even fell much pleasure, and we have both been very sad about it. one thing i feel may be effecting it, and it is the only difference i can find, is that she now has the marena which she got a few months ago. what are we doing wrong, and how can we get her to climax?