hi doc,my name is farah.i m married n havetwo daughters.i hv married since 15 yrs.almost one year back i met a boy on cell phone.that boy hs influenced my life so much that we both get in love.he is 24 yrs while i m 35 yrs.but i told hm a lie abt my age n he only knws tht i m married n i m 23 yrs old.nw the problem is he is engaged nw n ignoring me badly.he always said he loves me a lot but take care of hs fiancee a lot.i want to get out of this situation plz help me out i'll b thankful to u.
My dear friend, I can acknowledge the problems you are facing currently but one thing you must understand that false promises and lie in any relationship won't last longer. Next thing is that you must understand that the guy was single and I think neither you nor he was committed to the relationship. Now when he is trying to get out you are feeling bad. Society also plays a role and he must be having certain problems too. You may also face problemsif your children and your husband comesto know about your relationship. So just move on, think that it was your past and proceed forward. You have got loving children so spend time with them.if you feel comfortable then discuss your problems with any close friend.
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My dear friend, I can acknowledge the problems you are facing currently but one thing you must understand that false promises and lie in any relationship won t last longer. Next thing is that you must understand that the guy was single and I think neither you nor he was committed to the relationship. Now when he is trying to get out you are feeling bad. Society also plays a role and he must be having certain problems too. You may also face problemsif your children and your husband comesto know about your relationship. So just move on, think that it was your past and proceed forward. You have got loving children so spend time with them.if you feel comfortable then discuss your problems with any close friend.