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How To Handle Misunderstanding?
Hi I am veni from tirunelveli tamilnadu. My parents having misunderstanding problem. My father is 56years old and my mother is 46 years old. They git married while my mum was 18 years and my dad was 28 years old from the begining they both met problem and we are the three children to them. Me and my sister got married. Still my brother is living with them. Now my dad becomes to much bad. He is used so much valgour words and he related my mother to some other men. That is the biggest problem. My mother wearing unmatched dress because of mydad from the erlier.
Wed, 4 Jun 2014
Hi Veni
Misunderstandings are a part of every relationship and it can be the worst distance between 2 people.
Your parents married at a very young age and probably did not get enough time to know and understand each other. Over the years, small problems lead to bigger misunderstandings.
The best way to handle misunderstanding is to talk it out. If you think your father doesn't respect your mother, then you and your siblings should try to discuss or have an "intervention" with him.
Be there for your father , as much as you support your mother. It might be possible that he is going through a rough stage too.
If that doesn't work out either, you should distance yourself from him for some little time. Absence might make him realize the importance of family.
Misunderstandings are a part of every relationship and it can be the worst distance between 2 people.
Your parents married at a very young age and probably did not get enough time to know and understand each other. Over the years, small problems lead to bigger misunderstandings.
The best way to handle misunderstanding is to talk it out. If you think your father doesn't respect your mother, then you and your siblings should try to discuss or have an "intervention" with him.
Be there for your father , as much as you support your mother. It might be possible that he is going through a rough stage too.
If that doesn't work out either, you should distance yourself from him for some little time. Absence might make him realize the importance of family.
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