Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Leading life with short tempered people are not so easy. You should never say, when or for what purpose, they get angry. Therefore, you cannot act according to her behavior. You being strong is also futile. You can approach her in a different way. You should make her aware that she is short tempered. Then take her to a behavioral therapist and get the therapist s suggestion. Then she shall take care of her own short temper. you do not have to worry about it. You can post a direct question to me in this website. Include every detail as much as you can. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques to control your condition. I am sure that the techniques should be a success. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.