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iam 40years aged with 2 children. My husband is hale and healthy, he is 50 yrs now. He is not interested with sexual relation now a days and his penis does not arouse and get stiff. I am totally unhappy and frustrated. please, help me. please....
Low sex drives might because what your mind thinking all the time and you will no long think about even for the sex. That could be the reason for low sex drive.
I had gone through your query and would like to suggest you that give more time to your partner. That could help you for solving out your query. As you mentioned you are married 50 years old your partner so i would like to suggest you that while you go for intercourse go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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Thank you for writing to HCM, Low sex drives might because what your mind thinking all the time and you will no long think about even for the sex. That could be the reason for low sex drive. I had gone through your query and would like to suggest you that give more time to your partner. That could help you for solving out your query. As you mentioned you are married 50 years old your partner so i would like to suggest you that while you go for intercourse go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse. Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati