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hello dr . i m a dentist . my husband is an engineer working in an mnc/. we have a girl baby 9 months old. we got married on feb 2009. since my marriage he is not showing any interest in marital life volutarilly. when i use to watch him i found he s interested more in porn movies and vedeos and masturpate.when i ask about it he too accepts what he does and says tryinig to limit it gradually . i m very much worried about this life style. pl give me some suggestion to overcome this problem.
No interesting sexual relation may lead your partner like this. He dont have any interest in sexually active with you might be the reason that he is not enjoying sexual relation with you as he is more interested in porn video etc as you said.
I would advice here that you should have to give more time to him for sex. And try to do what he likes.
Like you should have to go for oral sex and foreplay first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even you should have to use different positions of intercourse rather than normal intercourse position. This will give you and your partner more pleasure and the main thing more satisfaction.
Hope you will find it helpful and will increase interest in intercourse with you and your partner.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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How To Improve Sex Life?
Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, No interesting sexual relation may lead your partner like this. He dont have any interest in sexually active with you might be the reason that he is not enjoying sexual relation with you as he is more interested in porn video etc as you said. I would advice here that you should have to give more time to him for sex. And try to do what he likes. Like you should have to go for oral sex and foreplay first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Even you should have to use different positions of intercourse rather than normal intercourse position. This will give you and your partner more pleasure and the main thing more satisfaction. Hope you will find it helpful and will increase interest in intercourse with you and your partner. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati