Hello, Maintain a cordial relationship with your husband. 1.Men are commonly not active during sex when they are going through some kind of depression that they don t want to talk about. 2. They are stressed out or exhausted. Have some anxiety. 3. They do not have a good erection or are suffering from premature ejaculation. 4. Have some health issues. 5. They are suffering from lack of sleep. 6. They have low testosterone levels. 7. Age factor also plays a major role. 8. If the partner is not kind or he has some relationship problem with her. The above are few factors that causes loss of libido in men. Work on improving your relationship with him. Give him more time & frankly tell him your needs and urges. Visit the counsellor with your partner and take their help. Your husband needs to get clinically examined by a GP, for premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. You can ask & give your partner a longer foreplay so that both of you can turn-on as premature ejaculation interferes with satisfaction during intercourse. Do a complete medical check-up along with hormonal tests to detect the medical condition that is interfering with your conjugal life. He may need medicines. In the meantime, give him home made nutritious food rich in minerals and high in protein. Keep your bedroom peaceful, clean and comfortable. Take care. Hope I have answered your question. Let me know if I can assist you further. Regards, Dr. Nupur K, General & Family Physician