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How To Overcome Sexual Feelings For Same Gender?


I have a very crucial problem that got me misfit in my society (Pakistan/ Muslim). I feel sexual attraction to lovely oldmen since my childhood. I have zero / negative sexual attraction towards female. I got married 3.5 years ago and could only did intercourse with my wife for 15-20 times only by using drugs. Attraction towards lovely oldmen is injected in my blood. I tried all by best by failed. I could managed 4-5 times body sex with oldmen.I am much worry about my married life. How can i get red of this. Is there any medicine..? Is there any medicine that enable me to like opposit genders for sex..?
Fri, 17 May 2019
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Hi,

There are 2 options you can come clean to your wife about your sexual desire

1. she understand your feeling, you both as a couple go to a psychiatrist and work your marriage. Yes, there are meds available to suppress desire. If you feel for your society and family name.

2. she doesn't understand your issue, still, you see a psychiatrist, you don't want medication to suppress, you like what you do. Feels suppressing sexual feeling is wrong.

Take a break and lead your happy life as you desire lying to your partner is wrong, both you and your partner live will be spoiled.

Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.

Take care

Regards,
Dr S.R.Raveendran, Sexologist
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How To Overcome Sexual Feelings For Same Gender?

Hi, There are 2 options you can come clean to your wife about your sexual desire 1. she understand your feeling, you both as a couple go to a psychiatrist and work your marriage. Yes, there are meds available to suppress desire. If you feel for your society and family name. 2. she doesn t understand your issue, still, you see a psychiatrist, you don t want medication to suppress, you like what you do. Feels suppressing sexual feeling is wrong. Take a break and lead your happy life as you desire lying to your partner is wrong, both you and your partner live will be spoiled. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care Regards, Dr S.R.Raveendran, Sexologist