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How To Quit Masturbation?
Hi! I suspect that my boyfriend has a masturbation addiction and keeps denying it. Last time we were supposed to have sex, he lost his erection and i got suspicious, first of all because he ran out of the bathroom and had it, just like that. Didnt he want to get it from our foreplay. One night(after sex!!!) when we slept in separate rooms i heard him wake up and the whole madrass started vibratng very loudly the light was on, he than runs out to the bathroom and grabs alot toilet papper, i asked him about t he couldnt explain the shaking madrass(i know im not crazy, it is what i heard), and said he went to the toilet but i know he didnt. A while ago i found some toilet paper in the bathroon trash, that smelld like body lotion, and was still moist.
The first time i started suspecting his exsessive masturbation is when i heard some friction noises and bed was vibrating he went to the bathroom and took a lot of toilet papper. In the morning his penis was so shrunken and swollen, we didnt have sex so i think he really went at it, and it hurts my feelings so much that he lies.
The first time i started suspecting his exsessive masturbation is when i heard some friction noises and bed was vibrating he went to the bathroom and took a lot of toilet papper. In the morning his penis was so shrunken and swollen, we didnt have sex so i think he really went at it, and it hurts my feelings so much that he lies.
Fri, 7 Nov 2014
Hello,
Thank you for writing to us,
Its a natural thing which is necessary for the men. but excessiveness might occurs problem.
As i had gone through your query and would like to suggest you something like as you describe you are not sure about the issue, So it could be possible that its nothing like that.
But if you are sure about it would like to suggest that you should have to give more time with your partner for sex. And let him believe that Sex with partner give more pleasure than masturbation. It could be possible that it help to get away form issue.
You may have to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. So, that he could understand about it better.
If still not work i would like to suggest you to concern a good doctor for more help.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
Thank you for writing to us,
Its a natural thing which is necessary for the men. but excessiveness might occurs problem.
As i had gone through your query and would like to suggest you something like as you describe you are not sure about the issue, So it could be possible that its nothing like that.
But if you are sure about it would like to suggest that you should have to give more time with your partner for sex. And let him believe that Sex with partner give more pleasure than masturbation. It could be possible that it help to get away form issue.
You may have to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. So, that he could understand about it better.
If still not work i would like to suggest you to concern a good doctor for more help.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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