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Hi i'm 18 and me and my boyfriend are consistantly sexually active. but lately he doesn't seem to want to pleasure me anymore and i think is because i get wet with anything we do before sex even if nothing is being done to me. But during sex the wetness isn't as great. is there a reason for this or a way that i can fix it?
wetness you feel is nothing but pre cum from your vagina. It should be there whenever you got excited nothing else.
I had gone through your query and would like to suggest you that dont be worry about it because its normal thing happens to everyone.
But as you described if pre cum amount is less just you had intercourse than would like to suggest you that you should go for foreplay and Oral sex first just before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
still issue than You may use lubricant if it happens each time you had sex so that penis could enter easily. Or you should use different positions in which penis enters easily. it also gives you more satisfaction and even more sexual pleasure.
Still you are facing the same issue i would like to suggest to concern a good doctor and check for issue they will suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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How To Reduce Discharge Before Intercourse?
Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, wetness you feel is nothing but pre cum from your vagina. It should be there whenever you got excited nothing else. I had gone through your query and would like to suggest you that dont be worry about it because its normal thing happens to everyone. But as you described if pre cum amount is less just you had intercourse than would like to suggest you that you should go for foreplay and Oral sex first just before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. still issue than You may use lubricant if it happens each time you had sex so that penis could enter easily. Or you should use different positions in which penis enters easily. it also gives you more satisfaction and even more sexual pleasure. Still you are facing the same issue i would like to suggest to concern a good doctor and check for issue they will suggest you better. Hope you will find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati