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How To Resolve The Problem With Lack Of Sex Drive?
It s 13 years of our marriage, we use to do sex very frequently for one year of our marriage but for last many years my wife is showing sex disinterest. This situation is creating panic irritation between us & situations to doubt. Please suggest solution to this online, wife is not interested to consult Doctor.
Lack of sex drive might because of busy life schedule. Or also some situations because of what mind cant concentrate on sexual life. And many more reasons.
You may have to give more time to your partner for sexual life. Like while having sex dont be so selfish and just think of your satisfaction but also have to think for your partner's sexual satisfaction.
You may have to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Also it gives you more interest for sexual life.
You may also try different positions which gives you more excitement for sex. And even more sexual pleasure than normal intercourse.
As you had described your partner is not interested for consulting doctor so, you may have to try with this and still queries than try to convince her for the same. They may help treat you better.
Hope you'll find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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How To Resolve The Problem With Lack Of Sex Drive?
Hello, Thank you for writing to HCM, Lack of sex drive might because of busy life schedule. Or also some situations because of what mind cant concentrate on sexual life. And many more reasons. You may have to give more time to your partner for sexual life. Like while having sex dont be so selfish and just think of your satisfaction but also have to think for your partner s sexual satisfaction. You may have to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse. Also it gives you more interest for sexual life. You may also try different positions which gives you more excitement for sex. And even more sexual pleasure than normal intercourse. As you had described your partner is not interested for consulting doctor so, you may have to try with this and still queries than try to convince her for the same. They may help treat you better. Hope you ll find it helpful. Thanks & Regards, Dr. Gaurav Prajapati