How To Treat Balanitis And Swollen Glands In The Groin?

hi, query on balanitis for 34yo 5'8" 70kg male, steady gf for 1yr now, early on after oral when she had sore throat, i got discharge that looked like gonorrhea, we got treated, she got tested - negative, me just treated, then month later, same again, back to same doc, i got treated again, tested this time for chlamydia, again negative. no problem for about 6mths, and now got balanitis n swollen glands in groin... any ideas?