i am a woman who had a man assault me, he crushed both of my hands after i interlaced my fingers, because he was going to show me a joke, he wrapped his large hands around mine ans squeezed down until i screamed and jerked away,he had a law enforcement badge, so did my husband standing next to him, my question, the pain and loss of function of my hands is tremendous, 3 years later i have had no treatment on them, but have been in E.R. several times, is my injury worse because they BLINDSIDED ME, and i was relaxed?