Hello, Doc. I've been married for over a month now, and my wife feels lots of pain when I try to get in. I've tried lubricants but they don't work for her. She cries the moment I get it and is now very scared of the whole process. What can I do? Are there any defloration pain killers?
Hello, In the current scenario, it should be determined why she is suffering from pain, is it a psychological fear or an organic cause. A local examination by an expert can rule out a thick hymen, other causes like vaginal septa etc. Simultaneously, her attitude also can be assessed and counselling given if thought necessary. For organic causes like thick hymen simple surgical procedures would help followed by abstinence until healing is complete. Lubricants like K-Y Jelly can be used. Hope this helps.
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How To Treat Painful Vaginal Intercourse?
Hello, In the current scenario, it should be determined why she is suffering from pain, is it a psychological fear or an organic cause. A local examination by an expert can rule out a thick hymen, other causes like vaginal septa etc. Simultaneously, her attitude also can be assessed and counselling given if thought necessary. For organic causes like thick hymen simple surgical procedures would help followed by abstinence until healing is complete. Lubricants like K-Y Jelly can be used. Hope this helps.