My husband is 72 years old. Diabetes type 2 and heart patient. Had open heart surgery about 5-6 years ago. Triple bypass and carotid artery surgery at the same time. He also has high blood pressure still while being on two different types of meds for the blood pressure. He takes insulin twice a day. Sugars still run 200+. As you probably have gathered, he is not a compliant patient at all. Lately, he has been dealing with ulcers on his lower legs due to the fluid buildup and diabetes, so he has been seeing a wound specialist for that. He will not exercise, due to pain in the knees. He is 6 1 and weighs 260lbs. Eats and drinks what he wants. You get the picture I m sure. My question is, is there a site that I, as his caretaker, can go to for support for myself? I find myself angry with him because he could control all of this if he wanted to then I feel guilty feeling that way. He does work part-time, sitting at a desk answering phones and dispatching. Thanks