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Dr. Andrew Rynne
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I Have Never Had An Orgasm

I ve been with my boyfriend for over 3 years, I feel like sometimes I might, but then I can never get there, it just feels like it s never going to ever climax. I ve tried to do it on my own, but I m just not into it. So besides masturbating, what the hell should I do!? and what s wrong with me??
Tue, 22 Dec 2009
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some women do have that. i think it's better to consult a gynecologist for this matter. i know it'll be a very uncomfortable situation but there might just be an underlying reason for all this. it maybe a nerve, or something to do with your menstrual cycle. or it could be psychological. maybe your mind wanders off somewhere instead of concentrating with your bf when you guys are doing it. or you're too concerned on reaching it, you end up tired of even thinking about it, hence the lack of interest. it could be stress-related too. observe yourself for a whole week, list down the things you do in a day. maybe you're just tired because of too many things you have to do. if everything i suggested still could not pin point what's wrong, then maybe its the boyfriend's fault? he maybe doing it too fast too soon for you? women do take longer than men you know..
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I Have Never Had An Orgasm

some women do have that. i think it s better to consult a gynecologist for this matter. i know it ll be a very uncomfortable situation but there might just be an underlying reason for all this. it maybe a nerve, or something to do with your menstrual cycle. or it could be psychological. maybe your mind wanders off somewhere instead of concentrating with your bf when you guys are doing it. or you re too concerned on reaching it, you end up tired of even thinking about it, hence the lack of interest. it could be stress-related too. observe yourself for a whole week, list down the things you do in a day. maybe you re just tired because of too many things you have to do. if everything i suggested still could not pin point what s wrong, then maybe its the boyfriend s fault? he maybe doing it too fast too soon for you? women do take longer than men you know..