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Ignored By Boyfriend, Feeling Frustrated, Angry And Upset. Advise?

my boyfriend is not giving me time. he just ignores me and never listen to me. when i say tht if u hve no interested in relationship thn finish it ? he says i love you bt i hve some problems . when i ask abt problem he nvr rply
and i am also ideal from 6 mnths n all these things matters me more than before . i feel frustated and angry and upset all the tym
Mon, 6 May 2013
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Psychiatrist 's  Response
Hello
Welcome to HCM

It seems that there is a significant problem in your relationship and it is also affecting your personal and social life. You think that he is not giving proper time to you and ignoring you, on asking he says that he love you. See in most relations there occur a time when one partner may develop such feelings and problems, but mostly the feelings are just assumptions. Some times we tend to avoid reality and start assuming things which cause disturbance in relationships. I would advice to talk to him regarding your concern and give him proper space and time to think. I would also advise you to please take a break from daily routine and think about the relationship. Hope it helps.

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Psychologist Dr. Psychologist K. V. Anand's  Response
Dear
Welcome to HCM
Ignorance is bliss, you know
You are being ignored with a cause.
Just be in her shoes and think clearly.
Don't allow your stress and anxiety block clear thinking.
Such stress is normal for a boy friend.
Learn to live positive.
See the positive side of the situation.
Wish you speedy recovery
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Ignored By Boyfriend, Feeling Frustrated, Angry And Upset. Advise?

Hello Welcome to HCM It seems that there is a significant problem in your relationship and it is also affecting your personal and social life. You think that he is not giving proper time to you and ignoring you, on asking he says that he love you. See in most relations there occur a time when one partner may develop such feelings and problems, but mostly the feelings are just assumptions. Some times we tend to avoid reality and start assuming things which cause disturbance in relationships. I would advice to talk to him regarding your concern and give him proper space and time to think. I would also advise you to please take a break from daily routine and think about the relationship. Hope it helps. Thanks