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Im 27 years old, and Im completely attracted by middle aged woman who are around 40-60 years old and look very plumpy. This feeling has been there in my mind since my teenage, ( I fantasize a lot about only fat and middle aged woman, but not with a normal girl irrespctive of her beauty) Could anybody tell me is it normal or a psyco disease??
I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Every person has his own personality, behavior and liking patterns. Some like dogs, some cat, some horse etc. Likewise, like towards opposite sex, same sex etc are also common. In your case, fantasy about older women are efinitely not a psychic disease but an obsession arised due to non-awareness about sex. Fantasy about old ladies are just fantasies, not reality. Reality shall enlighten you when you get married. Till then, please enjoy your studies, areer and of course, fantasies.
In case if you need more of my assistance in this matter, please post a detailed direct query to me on this portal. I shall help you with psychotherapy tips to overcome your problems.
Hope this answers your query. Available for futher clarifications. Good luck.
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Is It Normal To Fantasize About Older Women?
Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. Every person has his own personality, behavior and liking patterns. Some like dogs, some cat, some horse etc. Likewise, like towards opposite sex, same sex etc are also common. In your case, fantasy about older women are efinitely not a psychic disease but an obsession arised due to non-awareness about sex. Fantasy about old ladies are just fantasies, not reality. Reality shall enlighten you when you get married. Till then, please enjoy your studies, areer and of course, fantasies. In case if you need more of my assistance in this matter, please post a detailed direct query to me on this portal. I shall help you with psychotherapy tips to overcome your problems. Hope this answers your query. Available for futher clarifications. Good luck.