Respected Ma am, I am a 26 year old woman, single and I have been masturbating from when I was 21. Not a regular doer, but just before and after I have my periods (almost every time, I know the hormones are high). Rarely accompanied with porn. I find masturbating very relaxing and good. But being a catholic, I find it hard sometimes to cope with the guilt of masturbating. I have never been a fan of marriage, so my parents don t push me and I don t intend to get married soon and settle. I have never shared this with anybody and this would be the first time I m writing in to know. I just wanted to know if masturbation is alright. I was a student in Sacred Heart s and Sr. Anunciata from Respect for Life India, has been an inspiration for me all my life, and I have led my life always following right, except for this one. I have never had boyfriends (but have been social with all) and I have said NO to things I know are wrong. I am sometimes able to control it, but would like to eventually stop. Should I stop it or will this be okay. Please help me!