Hello dear Doctor ,
my query is about the well known question about the penis ... size ... you see , i am 17 years of age , and i am engaging in sex very regulaly , my girlfriend and i are madly inlove and very happy together now since 7 months , and hopefully continue to do so as well ....

My concern is not a real concern .. but more something which is a state of mind ... since i have began too be sexualy active , it has always been the biggest concern too pleasure my partner as much as i wish too be pleasured.... seeing friends sizes , some bigger , some huge ,some as big , my penis size is 12.5cm , now my girlfriend claims too love my penis , its perfect for her she states , i am her first , and personaly i dont think she cares about it , it does seem too please her alot , you see ... recently i had a dream , of my old friend making love too my loved one ... his penis is not much bigger , but i would guess it around 2-3 cm longer , in my dream , the sex was passionate as ours , but she is enjoying the size alot more , it has come too my mind ... what if my penis were too be 2-3 cm bigger ? im am sure it can not harm and therefore only contribute , since 14-16 cm wouldnt be anything abnormal either ... this concern is having a huge impact on my sexlife , being i feel i am not performing as good as i would with a bigger penis .. i am sure the slight increase would only be noticed very possitevly ...this is frustrating me so much , i cannot focus on experiencing full pleasure ... i am having dificulties focusing on the enjoyment and being distracted by my thought of having a bigger penis right now ... or of that so unpleasant dream i had , please help me , please help me find a way to overcome this , i canot have my own penis destroy my sexlife ... meaning my relationship , as i plan my future with this woman , and my worries are begging to increase .. is there maybe even a working way too naturaly even if only 1-2 cm increase the size of my penis , please help me i am of great concern , i canot help myself and it is getting worse for me , thank you