my boyfriends 9 year old daughter wants her father to rub her back and stomach all the time she pulls her shirt for him to do this, is this correct behavior, she also lays on top of him when he is laying on the couch watching tv and wants him to rub her then too
Kids at an earlier stage want to feel a lot of affection. It makes them feel secure and safe. But if its go to off track , one should probably try to find a reason for it.
At a young age, you don't want your boyfriend's daughter to constantly want her father to rub her back. It will effect her personality in future.
Maybe she has seen you or his wife in the sexual act and is unsure of what was happening.daughters are closer to father and so u may just try to divert her attention.
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Kids at an earlier stage want to feel a lot of affection. It makes them feel secure and safe. But if its go to off track , one should probably try to find a reason for it. At a young age, you don t want your boyfriend s daughter to constantly want her father to rub her back. It will effect her personality in future. Consult a child psychologist or a psychiatrist before it gets too late