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No Interest In Intercourse.
sir , indian my age 38 and my marriage life is 15 years but i donot like sex with my husband i have interest sex and my life is not space sex i want to know why (begning to marry i don t like sex but now i hate sex please help me i do not want destory my marriage life my husband is very good person he love much thanks
Tue, 8 May 2012
Hi Mamta.
Thanks for the query.
Do you have any discomfort or pain during sex ?
Usually causes for lack of interest in sex could be due to pain or discomfort while having sex, lack of intimacy with husband, tension and emotional stress with causes tiredness and fatigue. Also some hormonal disorders like PCOD, PMS can cause lack of interest. This needs to be investigated of you feel unusually tired, gained weight recently, feeling of bloating of stomach, swelling of feet and development of any hair on chin.
Also psychiatric conditions like mood disorders, depression, dysthymia etc. can cause loss of interest in sex. This needs to be diagnosed by a leading Psychiatrist.
Eat a diet with plenty of proteins and fresh fruits and green leafy vegetables. Drink 1-2 litres of water daily. Get 6-8 hours of sleep daily. Do Yoga for stress relief. Do daily brisk walking for 40 minutes a day. Avoid smoking, alcohol and caffeine.
Consult your Doctor to find any medical causes for this problem but before that make sure you have proper diet and get proper sleep. Get a consult with your Psychiatrist to rule out mood disorders.
Wishing good health.
Regards,
Thanks for the query.
Do you have any discomfort or pain during sex ?
Usually causes for lack of interest in sex could be due to pain or discomfort while having sex, lack of intimacy with husband, tension and emotional stress with causes tiredness and fatigue. Also some hormonal disorders like PCOD, PMS can cause lack of interest. This needs to be investigated of you feel unusually tired, gained weight recently, feeling of bloating of stomach, swelling of feet and development of any hair on chin.
Also psychiatric conditions like mood disorders, depression, dysthymia etc. can cause loss of interest in sex. This needs to be diagnosed by a leading Psychiatrist.
Eat a diet with plenty of proteins and fresh fruits and green leafy vegetables. Drink 1-2 litres of water daily. Get 6-8 hours of sleep daily. Do Yoga for stress relief. Do daily brisk walking for 40 minutes a day. Avoid smoking, alcohol and caffeine.
Consult your Doctor to find any medical causes for this problem but before that make sure you have proper diet and get proper sleep. Get a consult with your Psychiatrist to rule out mood disorders.
Wishing good health.
Regards,
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Hi,
sex is natural and sex is normal.
you need counseling with sexologist and should have taken it much earlier to come out of the situation .
you say your husband is very good person and you love him.
sex is integral part of husband wife relation ship .
Sex is as normal as hunger ,as normal as any other physiological acts.
once you develop the desire for sex with your husband you will have the experience of pleasure that you deprived yourself for so long years.
have some counseling and experience the new world of pleasure being intimate with your husband .
sex is natural and sex is normal.
you need counseling with sexologist and should have taken it much earlier to come out of the situation .
you say your husband is very good person and you love him.
sex is integral part of husband wife relation ship .
Sex is as normal as hunger ,as normal as any other physiological acts.
once you develop the desire for sex with your husband you will have the experience of pleasure that you deprived yourself for so long years.
have some counseling and experience the new world of pleasure being intimate with your husband .
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