Hi I went to a gyny today and left totally I satisfied, my problem is that for the last few months , while having intercourse , I feel upside down , meaning the inside pelvic bone area feels to be where my tail bone is and viscera it just doesn't feel right also I'm finding it hard to feel my muscles down there , and I'm feeling numb to any arousal , and the gyny tells me to stop drinking coffee and smoking , please can you give me some idea what's going on thank you