Hello dear hope you be fine
Dear lets have a detailed view of your problem
You want to cobceive but couldnt your hormone levels ate favourable for ovulation ,,,,dear check for yourself use
ovulation induction kit itvwill ell you presicesly whether you ovulate or not,,,then make intercourse accordingly,,,,,
Second you have pain in intercoarse dear jellies are available on market for lubrication they will remove this issue
Third i am of openion you should undergo laproscopy and
hysteroscopy dor tube patency
Get yur partner examined too
A few tips low female body ph,low calcium and high potassium favour
pregnancy,,take bananas and yawns,,,,make your partner drink cofee before intercourse it increase sperm motility
Hope my ans us of some help to you