I have a lump directly under my ear where meets the jaw, It is painful to touch , soft about the size of a pea. Today I noticed the same side of my face and neck are swollen , pain in my neck in the back and side. My ear hurts at times and feels like it's being filled with concrete is the only way I can describe it. I have lupus , sjornes syndrome and take immuno- suppressants. Lost my health insurance so I don't want to rush to a doctor unless it's necessary..any advice would help...thank you