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Severe Stress Due To Family Obligation, Denied When Probed. Help

Im 85 years old and i live with my 62 year old daugter,She is very stressed and always stressed, she denighs it and says Im always doing every thing wrong'She says I make her sick and wont let me talk to any one about it,she saysI make her sick, Shes here because my kids say I cant live alone and they all work and my only problem is I cant drive any more,She wont let me,I dont know what to do about it,
Wed, 20 Nov 2013
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your description. I suggest you not to worry too much. You are 85 and you know about family bond and affection. Your daughter is your family. She is here to assist you and to take care of you. She might be under severe stress, but she never wants you to know it. She don't want you to be in stress after knowing about her stress.

I think this explains all. As an elder person and father, you have your duty to oblige and obey your daughter who is here to take stress for the sake of you. Means, be nice to her, obey her and be a nice father. Don't give her more stress.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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Severe Stress Due To Family Obligation, Denied When Probed. Help

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your description. I suggest you not to worry too much. You are 85 and you know about family bond and affection. Your daughter is your family. She is here to assist you and to take care of you. She might be under severe stress, but she never wants you to know it. She don t want you to be in stress after knowing about her stress. I think this explains all. As an elder person and father, you have your duty to oblige and obey your daughter who is here to take stress for the sake of you. Means, be nice to her, obey her and be a nice father. Don t give her more stress. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.