1st of im sixteen & im sexually active, i have gotten a blood test & a urine test for STD STIs & I dont have anything, every now & then i get a small lump on my anus , its tender & stings when i touch it. Im not sure if its hermorroids because they do run in my family or if its a tear because i strain when i poop , it causes little discomphort & goesWha away after a few days , do i need to see a doctor or is it harmless ?