Good afternoon, I KNOW that this will sound really irrational, and uneducated, I am completely aware, but when you are afradi, rationality goes out the window. I am a 28 yr old virgin, brought up in that tradition. Last wednesday I was fooling around with my boyfirend, and things somewhat went out of my hands, and his penis touched what would be my "hymen", the moment i felt him there i pushed him away. I am not completely sure he didnt have precum because I myself had a little bit of secretion so I cant tell if it was his or mine, he says "he was dry" and the moment I pushed him away he lost his erection... the touch was only for 3 seconds at most, it was a tap... in addition to that I had my period last wednesday, finished it (still spotting) on Sunday and the accident happened the next wednesday, i have a regular 35 day period.