Hi,Im a Muslim, weigh about 85kgs and 6 feet tall. Im 28 years and married.My wife and i are in monogamous relationship from the time we were virgins. She is 27 years old and has a slim built.We are together since 8 years. We have a 4 year old son. The problem that im facing is, my wife wants to finish intercourse very soon. She enjoys when i give her oral and she never complains about the pain nor dryness. When we have intercourse, she says its very painful and she asks me to withdraw very soon, Which leaves me unsatisfied & i doubt she has ever attained orgasm.I have tried using xylocane 2% but it has not helped me at all, It has helped my wife for relief of pain as her vagina is tight.. I love her a lot and dont want to hurt her. I have tried to discuss this matter lot many times to her, since she is very conservative and shy , she says she is happy and satisfied. Im able to sustain a good erection when we have oral, sometimes im able to hold erection for 3 hours non stop without she touching it, and when we have plenty of foreplay.but when i have intercourse with her, she finishes early, After pregnancy she has lost interest in sex, i have some how managed to change that now, she is fine with plenty of foreplay but when it comes to intercouse, im unable to satisfy myself completely. Also the ring on my penis head(lower end) is very very sensitive, i cannot control my erection or ejuculation when she goes crazy, Within 30-45 seconds i ejuculate as she touches and holds my penis. Im scared about this and go into depression sometimes. 2 mins is very less and in that i ejuculate, an in that as well she says, she cant take it as it pains and gets dry. what gel can i use, please sugggest, also since she was lacking, her breasts have slagged a lot, Im unable to enjoy. Is it possible for her to start milking again though she is not pregnant,We dont have plans of another kid for next 3 years. Also tell me which are the safe days for having sex as we dont enjoy when i wear a condom, She just doesnt like it when i wear it. Also advice a low doze pills so as we can enjoy unprotected sex.