Suggest Medication For Decreasing Sexual Drive

Good morning madam Iam 25 yr old and my husband 36 yr old we got marriage 2 yr back and we hav 1 yr old baby girl my problem is getting frustration because of my husband is not intrested in sex at least weekly once or at least monthly once if I ask him he tells we have long life Iam waiting for his touches if unfortunately he touch me Iam uncontrollable
Then I ask him he is rejecting me at that moment Iam getting frustration like hurting myself and getting thoughts of suicide ,emotion. If I say can we consult doctor he is vey serious about that he doesn't obey he is weak in sex and say u hav more sexual feelings just controll else u will go in wrong way like affairs.i too scaring about that if Iam desperate to sex unfortunately I will go in wrong way. Please tel me something to controll sex it's difficult to eat salt less and spice less food don't tell me that one and also don't tel me convince your husband to consult doctor it's impossible please tel me something like any tablets to not getting sexual feeling even he touch me please doctor please help me save my life I want to live for my baby .