Hello, I have gone through your query and understood the concern. Vaginal pain after intercourse can result from infections, narrowing of the canal either secondary to infection, surgery or menopause and perimenopause. Rough intercourse also can lead to pain. As you have excluded infection, you can ask your doctor if you need any dilatation. If there is not proper priming with adequate vaginal secretion and Bartholin secretion prior to the intercourse, lack of sufficient lubrication can also result in trauma. K-Y jelly can help ease the dryness in such a case. Hope you find this information useful. Take care.