Dear service user
Thank you for contacting Healthcaremagic.
I have gone through your question and understand your concerns.
There is no 'specific' time period defined for ejaculatory delay. It greatly varies from person to person.
When clients with similar problems approach me, I recommend them a behavior exercise called start-stop technique. The man starts
masturbation and stops just prior to orgasmic inevitability. He allows arousal level to decline and re-stimulates. One should continue this 'start-stop' sequence for about 15 minutes. Later on he may fantasize about partner during the start-stop hence learns to be in the situation when he actually will confront female partner.
In this method, man learns to identify or feel the point of ejaculatory inevitability (The point of NO RETURN) and gains voluntary control of ejaculation gradually over a period of time.
Female on top position also helps to delay ejaculation.
I recommend medicines like
Paroxetine 20 mg to be taken 4 hours before coitus. It often helps male to delay climax. These medicines should be taken under medical supervision.
Hope, I have answered your question properly. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help. Wish you good health.