my son is in a quandry. His father in law has just been told he has canser they say he has only had it for 2 months my son and daughter in law cant get any answers all they know is that he has luckima and it has spred to stomake he also has severe back problems and canser has spred to the bones. they tell my son it is the worse case senario.as far as they know dad is in hosp and not getting out any time soon they said they will try cemo my son wants to make sure his wife sees her father before it is too late but they live in CA and the father lives in NY they are planning a christmas visit will that be too late or should he send his wife now