my B/P was 142/122, pulse 40 last night, shoulder sore, very sleepy, arms dead weight oh & lower lip tingling. I thought about going to the ER, but take care of mom who had major stroke & depends on me for ALL her needs. Respite will be starting in a week or two and then I can go for testing. This morning my B/P was 114/90, pulse 54, left arm funny feeling and real tired feeling, still sleepy. Can this wait till I get respite for Mom?