I have an 11 year old boy, second child, both boys. He is a sweet caring boy, but lately out of control, Has issues with anger and retaliation. He is about to be kicked off his hockey team because he swears,hits his team mates. At my wits end. I spank him, I talk calm with him, I yell at him. Nothing works. If he loses hockey he will lose his mind. When he is bored he gets in to trouble. One minute he is playing nicely with his brother, the next minute he attacks him. Please help.