I am having difficulty with incontinence after prostate surgery, which was performed on April 1. I find that I have to try masturbating to eliminate excess urine as I have to go within 20 or 30 minutes after previous bathroom trips.I am unable to get an erection, but find I get some sensation when I masturbate with the result a considerable amount of urine flow. I have found that using a condom will help keep me from having a mess when I try to masturbate.I have been unable to get Cialis approved for insurance, but have not talked directly to my doctor. I did try a 30 day free prescription, but did not notice any help.Are my problems similar to others?