Hi, thanks for the query. What your current set problem is seemingly a tough middle phase of relationship. Usually during early part of any romantic involvement; physical attraction prevails & tends to hide every flaw mutually perceived by partners. As one starts to settle in a relationship & relationship matures; one starts finding many undesirable things in one s partner & then gets into overdrive to correct them. This leads to conflicts, frequent quarrels & the earlier perceived charm starts to vanish. Hence, to have a great relationship; first thing is accept your partner as he is & dont try to correct his perceived faults hastily. Secondly, trust him for a while at least till the time when you don t find 100% conclusive proof of cheating. Men are usually solution givers & women are usually fault finders. Hence, sit down with each other; talk things calmly. You can also read a book by John Grey (Men are from Mars Women are from Venus) or consult a Psychologist for marital therapy. Dont worry, try things differently & you ll settle down fine. Hope this helps. Good Luck