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I got married a month back. My husband and I have tried our best to make love. But his penis is big and it hurts me every time he tries to insert it. The pain is unbearable. I ve always liked fingering until we tried to make love. Now even fingering causes pain. Also there is an unusual pain in my clitoris every time he touches it. I don t experience any pleasure and so does he. Pls help us to make each other express and feel our love with pleasure. Thank you.
Thu, 7 Aug 2014
Infectious Diseases Specialist, Dr. Praveen G's Response
Hello, Welcome to HCM,
Pain during intercourse (dyspareunia) is a pain or discomfort in a woman's labial, vaginal, pelvic areas during or after sexual intercourse.
A woman may perceive pain during intercourse even without any physical cause. Sexual pain without an apparent physical cause may have psychological orgins.
The most common cause may be changes in sexual behavior, increase in sexually transmitted diseases and increased willingness to discuss sexual behavior.
The pain can be reduced by following measure 1.Applying lubricating gels to the outer sexual organs 2.Sex toys, such as vibrators or dildos, may also be useful. 3.Should talk with her health care provider about the use of vaginal dilator. Thank you.
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Suggest Remedy For Pain During Intercourse
Hello, Welcome to HCM, Pain during intercourse (dyspareunia) is a pain or discomfort in a woman s labial, vaginal, pelvic areas during or after sexual intercourse. A woman may perceive pain during intercourse even without any physical cause. Sexual pain without an apparent physical cause may have psychological orgins. The most common cause may be changes in sexual behavior, increase in sexually transmitted diseases and increased willingness to discuss sexual behavior. The pain can be reduced by following measure 1.Applying lubricating gels to the outer sexual organs 2.Sex toys, such as vibrators or dildos, may also be useful. 3.Should talk with her health care provider about the use of vaginal dilator. Thank you.