I met a new guy and stupidly trusted him because he seemed so innocent. I had unprotected sex with him. I now have very painful rushes around my private parts. I have had similar rushes before, after I wear a certain type of pad during my periods, or even masturbate. Am I infected? This new boyfriend recently admitted he had kissed his male roommate, I worried there was more to in than that because his roommate was very jelousy of our friendship, and that is how the whole issue came up, after my constant questioning...ever since I distanced myself from the new friend...but I worry for my health incase he had had gay encounters